So I got my first "hateful, mean" comment on my blog. Other blogs I follow have complained about the random people out there who do this. I guess I never understood how they truly felt. To be honest I was a little shocked... but then I realized if someone honestly took the time to read my blog, and then take the time and effort to leave a mean comment, wow. Just the effort shows that they felt THAT insecure about themselves they needed to put me down. I love how they left the comment anonymous, coward.
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boo for haters. i'm sorry to hear that you got a mean comment. the blog world shouldn't be one filled with negative comments. on the contrary, it should be encouraging and fun-loving comments that are left for people to read. hopefully, it wont happen again. kudos for having such an awesome attitude about it. :)
ReplyDeleteo dear. i got my first one a while back and it was a major shock but i totally agree with you. keep on bloggin sista
ReplyDeleteditto to the above :)
ReplyDeleteThis gal I know got a hater comment and totally busted them by posting it on her blog and everyone proceeded to "hate" right back! Ha! Christ-like? prolly not. Deserved? Oh yes. It was hilarious sweet justice!!!
ReplyDeleteanyway, your blog is awesome so dont even sweat it. it just means your getting famous in the bloggy world and someone doesnt like it. LOL
I never would have imagined that you would get hate mail. I'm sorry. I think your blog is pretty sweet. :)
ReplyDeleteOh no! I dread the day I get one (I'm sure it will happen at least once to all bloggers). So sorry it happened anyway. Not fun, not nice at all. I hope you didn't listen. Keep blogging!
ReplyDeletei am with ya. i have experienced those meanies too. i think there is a band of people who just mean comment on blogs. and it's just really rude. there was one comment in particular that took me weeks to get over. and then i remind myself--- like you, this is my blog. if you don't like, don't read it!!!!!!!
ReplyDeletep.s. i like your blog.
I had someone leave a random rude comment too. I guess no one ever told them 'If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all'.
ReplyDeleteI love your blog, don't let rude people discourage you!
Seriously, why would someone take the time to read it then send hateful comments?
ReplyDeleteOhhh I am soooo sorry...I don’t understand people like that...Why would someone make an effort to read a post and then write something hateful....?
ReplyDeleteI hope you are ok sweetie
Kisses
SAD!!! :(
ReplyDeletesorry to hear this hun. i just don't get why people take the time to leave mean comments, it makes no sense.
that stinks!! sorry that happened!!
ReplyDeleteHaters suck! They're just jealous. I hope you feel better, you're lovely!
ReplyDeleteIt's because they have nothing else better to do with their time, but read PERSONAL, life blogs and be jealous, bitter, and hateful! Take it as a complement, like you said they took that much effort into it, smh NO LIFE! Anyhow like a reader above said when someone wrote something nasty and rude and of course Anonymously I posted the comment, just to prove that their "mean-ness" didn't bother me at all! Keep blogging because it's obvious you have readers that love what you do, me being one of them!! <3
ReplyDeleteI say.... How rude! To that person! ha ha seriously.... i love your blog! stinkin haters! : )
ReplyDeleteyou just keep telling it like it is! let people's negative opinions roll off your shoulders.
ReplyDeleteyou have a great blog!!
that's the absolute worst. i'm so sorry to hear that people are being so rude and pathetic. i have told myself time and time again, 'i'm better than this' and 'i don't deserve this'.
ReplyDeletei deny them and move on. although that is hard because you just want to retaliate.
just keep doing what you're doing. you're beautiful and so is your blog! ♥
boo on those haters!
Paislea Elyse
http://www.allisterbee.blogspot.com
Ohhh! I've seen a bit of this recently, it sucks and yes- talk about cowardice! x
ReplyDeletethat sucks lady! it drives me nuts when people do that sort of stuff! there's always the people that have to go and try and ruin it...keep your head up!!
ReplyDeleteI am really sorry about this, darling! It is very irritating and I totally agree with you. If they don't like a blog they should not read it. Don't make them the favor to stop blogging. Keep up the great job, your blog is lovely. Both of you, guys are really sweet!
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That's terrible. I agree, people that take the time to do that are insecure. Your blog is adorable as well. You and your husband are so cute, and it's apparent that you are very much in love.
ReplyDeleteQuestion, who did your blog layout for you? I love it.
how tragic that people actually take time in their day to put others down. keep doing what you're doing, girl!
ReplyDeletecheers to you!
i'm so sorry. i absolutely adore your blog and you just stay true to who you are and pity those that are so weak that they have to bring others down. keep blogging, so many of us love what you do and kill those haters with kindness and just keep being your wonderful self!!
ReplyDeleteYou have the right attitude - Really - who cares? They just want attention! Keep blogging girly!
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy that you didn't let them get to you!
ReplyDeleteThey never get to me anymore. As you said, they are insecure and try to bring others down.
I love your blog.
LOVE!
Amen!
ReplyDeleteI don't understand mean commenters - to expend that much energy on spreading hate.... I just feel sorry for them. I've never once had an ounce of inclination to leave a hateful message. I feel sorry for those folks, think about how stressful it must be to live in their heads!
I totally agree with what a girl said above.. this just means your blog is getting more famous.. its totally jealousy.. i tried to find the comment but couldnt ha ha..
ReplyDeleteP.S. what would anyone say rude about your blog? It's so fun and happy...
Silly Randi.... OF COURSE I DELETED IT! It was more then mean... it was horrible.
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading my interview!!!
ReplyDeleteI really can't stand mean comments and think that people who do such things, though rare suck at life!!!
Since I'm such a sensitive person (I don't want to be, but I am, I have a note on my blog saying not to leave any mean comments and I check my comments before they are posted, ever since I found a negative one from ages ago criticizing me) Ick!!!
I love your blog and have a great week :D
Oh and of course "no anonymous" comments. They are shady, even when being nice because you don't who it could be!!!
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ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by my blog! I just ♥ new visitors and comments. By your comment, you are a fan of scentsy? I love spreading the love with my scentsy products. IF you would like a catalog, just holler at me, and I will ship it out right to ya! its free, and so are the samples that I offer!
ReplyDeleteSo.... I am gonna browse around yoru blog if you dont mind. I hope to see ya around in the blogosphere! take care.
I just delete those comments. I love your blog.
ReplyDeleteSilly haters. Thanks for commenting on my blog! You look very familiar...29th ward??
ReplyDeleteP.S. LOVE the wedding dress! Huge fan of lace on fancy dresses.
haters suck. you dont! :)
ReplyDeletehaters may say a few bad things but im pretty sure i (+your followers) have thought a million good things. i think you are pretty rad and i lovvee your blog. yep. keeep up the bloggin sistaaa.
ReplyDeletejust want to add to all these other sweet comments that i ADORE your blog too! you are always so positive and i love reading what you have to say! keep up the great work and don't let this get you down!!
ReplyDeleteYou said it girl! I'm sorry about the hater- soooo lame!
ReplyDeleteYour comment totally made my day! I love your blog and I'm excited to continue reading it :]
ReplyDeleteyep. i agree with everyone. get rid of anonymous commenters if you haven't already. it's totally wussy to leave lame comments.
ReplyDeleteit still amazes me how lame blog readers can be. jealous rears it's ugly head with some people. i feel sorry for them.
love your blog. you guys are adorable. just keep on keepin' on! :)
I'm jealous. Maybe they are in middle school and have a crush on you.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, because my blog is private I will never get an anonymous hater :( Anyone who hates on me will have to reveal a name. (and they probably wont be in middle school either)
you know what that means? you are super popular!
ReplyDeletemean people suck.
ignore 'em!
I think you're awesomeness :)
I think people are just so used to criticizing public material- be it music, movies, people, or yes, even people on their private blogs. I think some people can lose sight of the fact that there is a *person* behind the blog, and they just lump it in the same category as analyzing/criticizing the newest movie/cd/book. It isn't fair, but I think our culture has progressed to a situation where so many people are living their lives so publicly, and so many public figures are routinely ripped to shreds, that when the two overlap people just throw out their judgments. It doesn't make them right, it's still mean, but I don't necessarily think it is because they are jealous, or don't have lives, etc. I think it's a symptom of the way we intake and comment on our media consumption. Either way, I'd agree with some comments above that if you get to the point where people are leaving "hate" comments, you know you've gotten pretty popular and well read, as strange as that is. Keep on doing what you do, you know what they say, some people will love you, some people will hate you, and it has nothing to do with you :)
ReplyDeleteAmen! I haven't had one yet, but still fairly new to blogland so it's bound to happen!
ReplyDeletegosh, I'm really sorry and surprised to hear this - I can never understand how people can leave nasty comments on lovely blogs :(
ReplyDeleteHi!! Saw you commented on my "hater" post so here I am to comment on yours :) I actually just added you to my reader and was skimming some of your posts. People are so ridiculous, right? Oh well, to each his/her own, I suppose. Looking forward to reading more from you!
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