tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post5764424987703006687..comments2024-03-27T02:15:22.010-07:00Comments on Crowley Party: Realize...Alycia Grayce (Crowley Party)http://www.blogger.com/profile/16438358678220412938noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-15163545186122748412010-10-08T14:38:50.944-07:002010-10-08T14:38:50.944-07:00that is a good reminder. and i am with ya. sometim...that is a good reminder. and i am with ya. sometimes i wonder where the filter is between the brain and mouth sometimes. and i think, "did you REALLY just let that come out of your mouth?"andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194147832358615693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-35081758083970980262010-10-08T08:03:18.327-07:002010-10-08T08:03:18.327-07:00tell 'em girl!tell 'em girl!Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08646183455829682758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-45813164666786370352010-10-07T22:27:22.496-07:002010-10-07T22:27:22.496-07:00I agree!...and love the quoteI agree!...and love the quotePeter and Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15960047669865902608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-79147378009519222912010-10-07T17:40:25.095-07:002010-10-07T17:40:25.095-07:00amen sisteramen sistersandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09166880995671387821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-76129424009090330112010-10-07T16:37:33.360-07:002010-10-07T16:37:33.360-07:00I completely think we all need to start giving peo...I completely think we all need to start giving people the benefit of the doubt and not being as judgemental.<br /><br />It's natural to form opinions in situations but some people just need to learn to keep that opinion to themselves and not voice it.Alyssahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09332274745671954539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-43416789236360663032010-10-07T15:15:39.804-07:002010-10-07T15:15:39.804-07:00Yes, yes, and yes! You are so very right and I fee...Yes, yes, and yes! You are so very right and I feel the exact same way. I am pretty good at not being judgemental already...but it's still a tough take on me not allowing judgemental people get to me. Thanks for this post. It really gave me some insight and you have like seriously, the prettiest smile ever! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16237099357098091627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-59863525020815191022010-10-07T15:05:42.447-07:002010-10-07T15:05:42.447-07:00Way to be! Isn't Eleanor the greatest? Serious...Way to be! Isn't Eleanor the greatest? Seriously, thanks for this. It's a good reminder.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12349446423010249163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-62475501629915452932010-10-07T14:51:34.593-07:002010-10-07T14:51:34.593-07:00I hope that I never do that to others and that if ...I hope that I never do that to others and that if I do by accident, I would realize it and apologize. <br />When we got engaged, more than one person said things like this and if they didn't then the look was on their face or subtle behind their words.<br />People should learn....Just because you are getting married young doesn't mean it's automatically a bad thing!!<br />People can be so hurtful sometimes!Amy @ AGirlCalledBelovedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01769636261059338472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-69994100039526361242010-10-07T14:23:22.680-07:002010-10-07T14:23:22.680-07:00DITTO!!!!!!!DITTO!!!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-80559907555460581872010-10-07T13:24:36.900-07:002010-10-07T13:24:36.900-07:00i LOVE this, and i'm so glad to see someone is...i LOVE this, and i'm so glad to see someone is on the same page about it.. i actually just wrote about the same exact thing!mal blairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03234481801025065945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-46137298216264506342010-10-07T12:48:01.367-07:002010-10-07T12:48:01.367-07:00Wow. You couldn't have put it any better. I ...Wow. You couldn't have put it any better. I love the quote by Eleanor Roosevelt too. We've been talking about consent in my Philosophy class, I think I'll bring that up!<br /><br />But anyways, people are stupid. I think things like that are said out of ignorance. People say way stupid things about Matt, and I know that they will continue until we are married, and probably after... ugh. Life.Mikelle Jadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02565533244345091103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-30222402819978005322010-10-07T12:47:52.353-07:002010-10-07T12:47:52.353-07:00People say the most ridiculous things sometimes!People say the most ridiculous things sometimes!~M~https://www.blogger.com/profile/16730532396065966345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-22827586229936656432010-10-07T11:31:03.992-07:002010-10-07T11:31:03.992-07:00I was told something like that when I got engaged ...I was told something like that when I got engaged too!! Except the opposite. My husband is older than me too and some girl went around and told everyone that I was only marrying him for his money and that I was taking advantage of him. The funny thing is that I had just bought a brand new house, I was taking care of myself and doing just fine. I didn't need my husband. I wanted him. The comment didn't hurt my feelings because I knew how ridiculous it was, but I was pretty mad that this person not only told me, but told everyone she knew.Kara Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13150875784269366271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-53901252386693789772010-10-07T10:58:46.877-07:002010-10-07T10:58:46.877-07:00When people say things like this to me, it really ...When people say things like this to me, it really gets under my skin too.. and I TRY my best not to let it bother me. Whatever they said rolls around and around inside of my head until I can't take it anymore. <br /><br />My husband always says "they're stupid, don't worry about them". Such a man thing to say, but I have really been trying to adopt his mind set because he's right... what do these people know? And where do they get off saying some of the crap they do? <br /><br />This person (not to make excuses for them) was probably trying to look out for your best interest, but if they knew you well enough, they should have already known you're a smart girl who knows what she wants out of life! :) <br /><br />Love the Eleanor quote.<br /><br />o, and here's my rant on judging others. http://2littlepuzzlepieces.blogspot.com/2010/06/judgement.htmldenisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01516303945718745845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-54386322766363601992010-10-07T10:38:59.784-07:002010-10-07T10:38:59.784-07:00Great blog to you too! I can totally relate to thi...Great blog to you too! I can totally relate to this, because I was also married young and my husband is 5 years older than me. People do make snap judgements all the time, we do every day without even realizing it. Anyway, I know exactly how you feel! lolShawn and Nina Olsenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15572324670296364467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-67329182520620934122010-10-07T10:31:04.075-07:002010-10-07T10:31:04.075-07:00Aren't people just plain rude sometimes? I'...Aren't people just plain rude sometimes? I'm sure whoever said this had the best of intentions, but still. Good for you for choosing your perspective. :)leemeandthegirlshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09513387025154758107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-54644049604492038552010-10-07T10:14:05.987-07:002010-10-07T10:14:05.987-07:00this is a really hard thing. i really my best to n...this is a really hard thing. i really my best to not assume or judge in hopes people will do the same for me. i'm glad that you were strong enough to realize that you are your own person and no one can decide that for you. way to go! and thanks for this.emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15065479570483784554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-91192757979758752602010-10-07T10:07:55.789-07:002010-10-07T10:07:55.789-07:00I loved your quote and what you said is so true. I...I loved your quote and what you said is so true. It's just like what I quote to Sarah all the time "You choose whether you are happy or not."Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00906385068751340719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-24753777627462641522010-10-07T09:48:29.169-07:002010-10-07T09:48:29.169-07:00I totally agree...Its hard at times but its easier...I totally agree...Its hard at times but its easier if you just try not to let this get to you...That photo is so sweet:)<br />Kisses<br /><br />Ps: If you have a chance, please check out my Giveaway:) I think you will like itDiana Mieczanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15261207538442821812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-36952771385470121702010-10-07T09:42:58.435-07:002010-10-07T09:42:58.435-07:00Love this post. You are so right, some of the thin...Love this post. You are so right, some of the things people say are outrageous. <br />It especially hurts when it's a true friend or family member.<br />Much love!<br />JanellChanse and Janellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02690084911838308417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-699693038908396892.post-21556514548251702402010-10-07T09:39:54.441-07:002010-10-07T09:39:54.441-07:00What wise and true words. I am always frustrated b...What wise and true words. I am always frustrated by the snap judgements I see people make around me daily...but I know I am guilty of doing the same. It is something I am constantly working on in myself and this reminder helps. It's all about perspective and loving one another.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02013331436417185599noreply@blogger.com